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Sex is like most things in life: Some things just never go out of style. So the good old blowjob will probably always be on the list of the most popular sex tips – and that’s a good thing. We have a few tips for you on how to make the blowjob even better…

Blowjobs and fellatio: Why is oral sex so popular?

Spoiling your partner with your mouth, tongue, and lips in the most intimate places is something most people find more than hot. It’s about closeness, intimacy, trust – and pure pleasure. Quite a few women are more likely to reach orgasm during oral sex than through pure penetration. And if you ask men, the blowjob is at the top of the list of the most popular sex practices for most of them.

The be-all and end-all for a blowjob: it has to be fun for both of you. During sex, you should never, really never, do anything just for the other person’s sake. But if you feel like it, here are a few tips for you!

What makes a blowjob reaaally good?

Ok, first things first: No matter who spoils whom with oral sex, everyone has the right to hygiene. That is, a freshly showered intimate area is an absolute must. And those who want to make it a little smoother for their partner may also like to reach for the razor…

But back to basics: how to give a good blowjob!

Get comfortable!

Sure, during sex both should be comfortable, but in this case, the one giving the blowjob should be especially comfortable. If one person is standing, just put a pillow under your knees. If you are lying on the bed, position yourself in the way that suits you best.

Start slow…

Many people say that they come particularly quickly during oral sex. It’s not a problem, but you can still delay the lip service. So work your way slowly up and down, play with your tongue and lips, tease and stop again and again before it really gets down to business.

Get handy…

Just because this is oral sex, it doesn’t mean that the hands should not be used. On the contrary, this makes your partner especially hot when you not only spoil them with your mouth but also create a massage sensation at the same time…

Switch the tempo up

Sometimes fast and demanding, then again soft and slow – playing with the tempo will drive your partner crazy. This gives you a good chance to delay the orgasm as long as possible.

Speak your partner’s body language

Want to know what exactly makes your partner really turned on? Then observe their reactions closely. When do they moan particularly loudly? Use your partners sounds and movements to guide you in what you can focus on and what to avoid…

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Play with temperature

Playing with heat and cooler sensations can be incredible during a blowjob. Take a sip of hot (but not too hot!) peppermint tea in your mouth and then get going. This will make the penis in your mouth feel warm at first, then deliciously cool due to the mint. Speaking of cool, playing with the ice cube in the mouth can also keep things surprisingly heated.

Don’t forget the balls!

Even if the penis holds the pole position during the blowjob, you shouldn’t neglect the surrounding sensitive spots. With one hand on the shaft, you can massage the testicles with the other, sometimes gently, sometimes more intensively, and thus give your partner even more pleasure.

Good vibrations!

Sounds weird, but it works! Start humming while you give a blowjob. Why? Quite simply, the buzzing creates vibration and it feels almost as good as adding a toy!

Champagne blowjobs

It’s a thing, we swear! Take a sip of cool bubbly in your mouth and then get going. This tingles wonderfully and makes for a particularly posh type of oral sex. Cheers!

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A few years ago, Julia Heyne moved to Berlin. Not because of love, but to deal with love on a daily basis. She headed the erotic department at BILD.de for seven years and because that wasn't enough love, lust and passion, she wrote a book about online dating in 2016. Today she has renounced online dating, but continues to write for O*Diaries about the most beautiful minor matter in the world. In her spare time, she also enjoys unromantic things like mountaineering, reading and ghostwriting for various book projects.