Squirting orgasms can be a lot of fun but they have a lot of stigma and misinformation attached to them. It’s the reason many vulva owners never attempt one. Read on to find out how to squirt…
What is squirting?
What is squirting? Well, let’s get a few things straight first: squirting is not the same thing as peeing. I repeat: squirting is NOT the same thing as peeing. While it does come from around the urethra, the ejaculate tends to be mostly clear and not smelly at all, like urine.
Every vulva owner can achieve a squirting orgasm
Secondly, every vulva owner has the ability to squirt. And it feels ah-mazing. Did I also mention most partners find it a huge turn-on?
If you’re still worried about the possibility of pee coming out, simply empty your bladder before sex. That way, when you squirt, you can relax in the knowledge it’s not urine. Also, if you’re worried about any potential mess or clean-up, simply lay a towel down on the bed before you start getting hot and heavy.
Patience is key!
When it comes to getting intimate, the last thing that will help you squirt is feeling rushed. Cut yourself some slack and experiment with different sensations and toys to find out what really gets you going.
While G-spot stimulation is usually an important element of squirting, clitoral play can really kick things off in a sensual and teasing way. Secondly, don’t forget the power of multiple orgasms – sometimes squirting is made easier by a few “warm-up” climaxes beforehand.
Relax – and do not worry!
The most important thing you need to be able to do in order to achieve a squirting orgasm is relax. If you’re worrying about pee or smells or dirty sheets, it’s very unlikely you’ll reach climax at all.
How to make a vulva owner squirt? Well, have lots of foreplay to release some of that calming dopamine, then use two fingers or a toy to press against your g-spot. You’ll find it an inch or two inside your vagina, against the front wall. It should feel a little more soft and spongy than the rest of your vagina.