Phew, It’s Hot! Summer Sex Positions for Lazy Lovers

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Too hot to be hot? As the temperatures climb above 30 degrees, we are left with a dilemma: while libido tends to increase, we may start to feel a little lazy. Ambitious sex might seem just a little too exhausting. So how to deal with this problem? It’s all just a question of finding the correct position. We have collected a few ideas for some cool summer sex positions. Give them a try!

General tips for summer sex

  • Avoid positions with too much physical contact. Unless you happen to enjoy getting stuck together, that is.
  • Slow it down – when it’s hot, a great way to keep cool is to practice some slow sex.
  • To avoid a sweaty bed (eurgh) try using linen bed sheets which can help with cooling.
  • Go with the flow – enjoy the increased summer libido and simply adjust your positions to the temperatures.

The best sex positions for hot temperatures

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Standing in a cool place

The shower is a great choice. Your energy will quickly return under a cool stream of refreshing water. If you fancy some variety, take a waterproof sex toy with you into the shower, such as the Womanizer DUO.

Of course, there are other cool places too, for example, standing in front of the open fridge door. But this isn’t very sustainable.

Womanizer DUO

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Sitting on the kitchen table

For male-female lovemaking, the female partner sits on the edge of the table, while he stands between her legs. This is a very comfy position, so it’s easy to spoil your male partner with a toy. We-Vibe Verge is the perfect toy for partner play as it stimulates both of you.

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Doggy Style

The advantage of this position is that body contact is limited but the sex is no less intense. Another plus is that it’s easy to do in cool places such as in front of an open balcony door. Refreshing breezes included …

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Cowgirl position

Here, too, you don’t really stick to each other like in the missionary position. In addition, the pace can also be a little more moderate. Perfect for lazy lovers…

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The 69

Wonderfully comfortable – just lie there, relax and at the same time spoil each other orally. Big reward (aka intense orgasms) for less effort. Both partners get their money’s worth. This is what relaxed summer sex is all about.

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More cool inspirations

  • Get out and about – does your apartment feel like an oven? Then venture out into the great outdoors. Sex in a cool forest is wonderfully refreshing. You can find more outdoor ideas here!
  • Integrate cooling accessories such as ice cubes or damp towels into your lovemaking.
  • Find the water! All locations that have something to do with water are per se the ideal places for summer sex. Whether under the shower, at the lake or the sea, it’s up to you.
  • Quickies are in demand, because during the summer heat, few have the energy for a love marathon. For the perfect solo quickie on the go, discover the Womanizer LIBERTY It’s the pefect travel companion thanks its stylish cover.
  • Speaking of solo, singletons who do not feel looking for a lover can also get their summer orgasms through sex toys.  We-Vibe Moxie is the perfect companion. Simply hold on to your panties because the summer day will be especially hot …
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Womanizer LIBERTY

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A few years ago, Julia Heyne moved to Berlin. Not because of love, but to deal with love on a daily basis. She headed the erotic department at for seven years and because that wasn't enough love, lust and passion, she wrote a book about online dating in 2016. Today she has renounced online dating, but continues to write for O*Diaries about the most beautiful minor matter in the world. In her spare time, she also enjoys unromantic things like mountaineering, reading and ghostwriting for various book projects.