Sex Positions for Lazy Lovers

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Let’s be real – we’re not all superstar athletes, and many magazine-recommended sex positions just seem like a lot of effort.  Ambitious sex might seem just a little too exhausting. So how to deal with this problem? It’s all just a question of finding the correct position. We have collected a few ideas for some cool lazy sex positions. Give them a try!

General tips for lazy sex

  • Avoid positions with too much standing up and supporting another person’s body weight.
  • Slow it down – practice some slow sex to lower the strength requirements. Take your time!
  • Get comfy on a soft surface – we’re talking bed and couch, not counter tops and tables.
  • Go with the flow – enjoy your libido and simply adjust your positions to suit your mood.

The best lazy sex positions 

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Get wet & sensual

The shower is a great choice. Your energy will quickly return under a cool stream of refreshing water. If you fancy some variety, take a waterproof sex toy with you into the shower, such as the Womanizer DUO.

Besides, you’re going to have to take a shower at some point anyway – why not make this chore more fun with some company?

Womanizer DUO

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We-Vibe Verge

Sitting on the kitchen table

For male-female lovemaking, the female partner sits on the edge of the table, while he stands between her legs. This is a very comfy position, so it’s easy to spoil your male partner with a toy. We-Vibe Verge is the perfect toy for partner play as it stimulates both of you.

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Doggy Style

The advantage of this position is that body contact is limited but the sex is no less intense. Another plus is that it’s easy to do on soft surfaces too – making it easier on your knees, and easier in general…

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Cowgirl position

Here, too, you don’t really stick to each other like in the missionary position. In addition, the pace can also be a little more moderate. Perfect for lazy lovers…

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The 69

Wonderfully comfortable – just lie there, relax and at the same time spoil each other orally. Big reward (aka intense orgasms) for less effort. Both partners get their money’s worth. This is what relaxed sex is all about.

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Cool inspirations for lazy sex 

  • Get out and about – does your apartment feel like an oven? Whether it’s summer sun or winter heating, the air can get stifling. Try venturing into the great outdoors. Sex in a cool forest is wonderfully refreshing. You can find more outdoor ideas here!
  • Integrate cooling accessories such as ice cubes or damp towels into your lovemaking
  • Find the water! Water helps to support your weight, giving a pleasant weightlessness to your saucy shenanigans. Whether under the shower, at the lake or the sea, it’s up to you.
  • Quickies are in demand, because few have the energy for a love marathon. For the perfect solo quickie on the go, discover the Womanizer LIBERTY It’s the pefect travel companion thanks its stylish cover.
  • Speaking of solo, singletons who do not feel looking for a lover can also get their orgasms through sex toys.  We-Vibe Moxie is the perfect companion. Hold onto your panties because the sensations can get more and more pleasurable…
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Womanizer LIBERTY

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We-Vibe Moxie

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A few years ago, Julia Heyne moved to Berlin. Not because of love, but to deal with love on a daily basis. She headed the erotic department at for seven years and because that wasn't enough love, lust and passion, she wrote a book about online dating in 2016. Today she has renounced online dating, but continues to write for O*Diaries about the most beautiful minor matter in the world. In her spare time, she also enjoys unromantic things like mountaineering, reading and ghostwriting for various book projects.