Summer Sex Positions

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Let’s be real – we’re not all superstar athletes and many trending sex positions just seem like a lot of effort. Plus, summer temperatures are rising which can slow us down. But our libido certainly hasn’t! It’s all just a question of finding a position that serves sweet, slow and sexy. Here are some summer inspired sex positions sure to please. Add in toys and temperature play for even more sensations. 

General tips for ‘lazy’ sex

  • Avoid positions with too much standing up and supporting another person’s body weight.
  • Practice slow sex to lower your strength requirements. Take your time!
  • Get comfy on a soft surface. We’re talking the bed and the couch, not counter tops and tables.
  • Go with the flow. Enjoy your libido and simply adjust your positions to suit your mood.

The best summer sex positions 

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Get wet & sensual

Oh, the shower! In summer, cool water refreshes and energizes for a morning, afternoon or evening treat. Go straight to the source and check out Womanizer Wave – a premium showerhead and clitoral stimulator in one! Or add in Womanizer DUO 2 for dual stimulation – lean back and enjoy the ride!

Besides, you’re going to have to take a shower at some point – why not make it more fun with some company?

Womanizer DUO 2

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We-Vibe Verge

Sitting on the kitchen table

For partnered lovemaking, one partner sits on the edge of a table, while the other stands between their legs. Put a cool, damp towel down for padding and a refreshing twist. This is a very comfy position, so it’s easy to spoil your partner with a toy. We-Vibe Verge is the perfect toy for partner play as it stimulates both of you.

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Doggy Style

The advantage of this position is that body contact is limited but the sex can still be intense. Another plus is that it’s easy to do on soft surfaces – making it gentler on your knees and more effortless in general…

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Ride ’em slow position

This position allows for grinding and riding at any pace you desire. Aim a fan in your direction for some delicious cool waves of air. Perfect for lazy lovers…

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The 69

Wonderfully comfortable – just lie there, relax and at the same time spoil each other orally. Big reward (aka intense orgasms) for less effort. Both partners get their money’s worth. This is what relaxed sex is all about.

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Cool inspirations for lazy sex 

  • Does your apartment feel like an oven? Summer sun can make indoor air a bit stifling. Try venturing into the great outdoors. Sex in a cool, shaded forest is wonderfully refreshing. You can find more outdoor ideas here!
  • Integrate cooling accessories such as ice cubes or damp towels into your lovemaking.
  • Find the water! Water helps to support your weight, giving a pleasant weightlessness to your saucy shenanigans. Whether under the shower, at the lake or the sea, it’s up to you.
  • What about a quickie? For the perfect solo quickie on the go, discover Womanizer’s Liberty. It’s the perfect travel companion thanks its stylish cover.
  • Speaking of solo, check out the wearable We-Vibe Moxie! Hold onto your panties (literally) because the sensations just get more and more pleasurable…
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Womanizer LIBERTY

We-Vibe Moxie

We-Vibe Moxie

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A few years ago, Julia Heyne moved to Berlin. Not because of love, but to deal with love on a daily basis. She headed the erotic department at for seven years and because that wasn't enough love, lust and passion, she wrote a book about online dating in 2016. Today she has renounced online dating, but continues to write for O*Diaries about the most beautiful minor matter in the world. In her spare time, she also enjoys unromantic things like mountaineering, reading and ghostwriting for various book projects.