6 surprising benefits of mutual masturbation

mutual masturbation

Sure, playing alone is fun. But why play alone when you an invite your partner to join the fun? Mutual masturbation is one of the most beneficial activities for your relationship and your intimacy. Just check out these six little-known benefits…

#1: What is mutual masturbation? Show and tell!

What is mutual masturbation? Well, it’s masturbating in front of each other! Masturbating in front of your partner allows them to see exactly what you like and learn in a very practical, direct way, exactly how to touch you. Consider it a sexy private tutorial. 

#2: Bonding time 

Masturbating with your partner is a powerful way to intensify your intimacy and connection, by really allowing yourselves to be vulnerable in one anothers’ presence. 

#3: Foreplay fun 

Foreplay is often the first thing to fall to the wayside in long-term relationships, and introducing mutual masturbation into the mix is a great way to get it back.  

#4: Mutual masturbation orgasm

Watching one another self-pleasure an build enormous sexual tension, leading to more intense orgasms. If that’s not a reason to mutually masturbate, then I don’t know what is!  

#5: Lending a hand 

Mutual masturbation isn’t just performing self-love together, it’s lending a helping hand! Introduce an exciting new element to your lovemaking by assisting your partner in a very sexy activity. ´

#6: Penetration isn’t everything 

Masturbating together is a great way to take the pressure off feeling like you always have to have penetrative sex. You could try a mutual masturbation site for explicit material themed around this fun activity to get some more ideas… 

So… why not trying mutual masturbation next time? If you want to extend your experience together, we have some suitable toys:

We-Vibe Vector

We-Vibe Vector

Extends the experience of mutual masturbation with anal stimulation: the Vector by We-Vibe is perfect for this. The toy stimulates not only the anal region, but also the perineum.

We-Vibe Melt

The pulsating air pressure of We-Vibe Melt surrounds the clitoris with highly pleasurable sensations, while the beautiful  curved design fits perfectly between you in any position.

Womanizer DUO

Womanizer DUO

The Womanizer DUO is a real all-rounder. It stimulates the G-Spot region called as well as the clitoral region – with 12 intensity levels and 12 vibration modes. For gigantic orgasms.

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Nadia Bokody is a sex-positive journalist and media commentator with a passion for empowering women in their sexuality, relationships and mental health. She’s also a regular columnist for titles including HuffPost, Mamamia, Thought Cataloug, The Sun, News.com.au, The Washington Post and more, and a regular sexpert on TV and radio shows including Triple M’s The Grill Team and Channel 7’s The Morning Show. Her relatable, comedic sex-ed YouTube channel has exploded in growth, amassing over 110,000 subscribers in just three months. When she’s not talking about sex or trialing the latest and greatest adult toys, she can be found running global women’s website, SHESAID.com.