Wet Romance: Self Love with Bathtub Masturbation

Lately, I’ve been trying to find ways to slow down a bit. Since I fancy myself a bit of a sex positive mermaid, I’ve started making bathtub masturbation part of my self love routine. Masturbation helps destress, improves sleep and increases self-esteem. Not to mention it feels oh-so-good. Combined with a steamy bath, this special me-time puts the naughty in nautical. Here are some inspirations to soak up for your next bathtub session.

Set the Scene

Bathtub masturbation is all about slowing down and creating a ritual for yourself. Close the door to the world (literally and symbolically) and say, this is my space. So, set the scene. You can go full on interior decorator or keep it simple.

First, I deep clean the tub and put out soft fresh towels. Then I get out the candles – tea lights work just fine for me, but there’s also aromatherapy candles in rose or mint for the serious mood setters.

Once the tub is full, I mix a couple drops of lavender essential oil with coconut oil to infuse the bathwater with a warm, relaxing scent. Maybe bubbles get you in the mood. Just be careful when adding scents to your bath – your vulva can be sensitive.

Ways To Play

Some of my first experiences with sexual pleasure were discovered in the bath. Yep, you guessed it – the faucet. The original bathtub masturbation made easy with delicious sensations of warm cascading water. Just scoot on down to position the faucet above your vulva and prop each leg up on the side of the bathtub. And voila!

Of course, now I can use my Womanizer Wave for both getting clean and getting down. Designed as the world’s first 2-in-1 showerhead and clitoral stimulator, this beauty can shape shift into quite the seductive sex toy.

Make A Splash with Toys

Part of my ritual is setting up a little table bath side. I pour myself a hot tea or glass of wine, get out the lube and some massage oil. I keep my phone nearby if I want to listen to music or erotic audio stories. But of course, center stage goes to my toys. I thought I’d offer a little inspiration from my own private play box.

If you’re a lover of clitoral kisses and seductive suction, Womanizer’s Premium 2 makes bathtub masturbation luscious and luxurious. With 14 intensity levels and an Autopilot feature, you might consider sound proofing your bathroom after orgasming with this toy. Sorry-not-sorry, neighbors!

To make bathtub masturbation even more memorable, why not double up on pleasure? Womanizer’s DUO offers both clitoral and G-spot stimulation for a wet and wild ride in the bath. I created quite the tidal wave of sensations by slowly building internal intensity and then adjusting the clitoral massage for climax. Let’s just say I slept very, very well that night.

Premium 2 Pleasure

DUO's Dynamic Pleasure

I love a good innovation and Womanizer’s hottest new toy the OG delivers on its promise. Since bathtub masturbation is all about slowing down, the OG offers a one of a kind journey to G-spot stimulation. I explored, teased and discovered new ways I can turn myself on – this is a toy I’ll keep nearby for easy bath time reach.

I also love classics and the We-Vibe Tango X is the perfect bathtub companion. Small, yet powerful – this bullet vibrator is whisper quiet for when I need to keep it discreet.

Ride the OG Wave

Get Wet with Tango X

Fill Up on Foreplay

Instead of heating up dinner, turn up the heat on foreplay by slipping into a bubble bath with the We-Vibe Jive. Since this wearable vibrator comes with long-distance app technology, your special someone can control the vibrations and intensity from their train ride home.

I love the feeling of prolonged expectation and a bit of mystery myself. Plus, who knows what’s to come when they finally get home? Maybe they’ll join you for some mutual bathtub masturbation? Yes, please.

Oceans of Orgasms with Jive

I Didn’t Forget…

Of course, penis owners can also enjoy bathtub masturbation! We-Vibe’s Vector X offers dual stimulation for both the prostrate and perineum. This adjustable anal rabbit vibrator brings it in the bathtub with vibrations right where you want them. If you’re in the mood to slather up with suds and enjoy a longer lasting erection, We-Vibe’s Verge is an app controlled vibrating cock ring with the added layer of perineum stimulation.

Dual Sensations with Vector +

Get Wet and Hard with Verge

I don’t know about you, but all this talk has me ready for some sexy self-care right about now…

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Originally from the wilds of Oregon, Alexis Smiley Smith moved to Berlin to sow her wild writer oats. Sex tech and pleasure exploration knocked, she answered and the rest is her-story. Turn on tastes include 90's electro, terrace gardening and 'almost too ripe' peaches.