From Sex to Bladder Infection: Honeymoon Cystitis

Bladder infection: Symptoms and Causes

I love having sex. Annoyingly I tend to contract a mean bladder infection a couple of days later. It’s a common phenomenon. In fact, it’s so common that it has been given its own name: honeymoon cystitis. But what exactly are the causes of the infection? And why do women suffer from it more often than men? We present the facts, answers and tips.

Is a bladder infection in the making? It’s just not fair. You have sex, maybe even really great sex, and then a couple of days later it hurts when you go to the toilet. Hell! Please, not again! It seems as if every time I have sex I get a bladder infection. Admittedly, I currently have a rather active sex life with my partner. Yet, he never gets cystitis (that’s the clinical name). Why? Because female bodies are built differently and sadly are more prone to cystitis.

Bladder infection in women: Why are we more prone to bladder infections?

Women contract cystitis more easily because their urethra sits between the clitoris and vagina – bang on in the middle so to speak. This is why a bladder infection in women is far more common than a bladder infection in men. The pathogens causing cystitis are usually enterobacteria such as Escherichia coli (or E. coli). These can spread from the woman’s or partner’s anal region to the genital area and reach the urethra and eventually the bladder. In men, the germs not only have to travel along a urethra five-times the length of a woman’s but are also generally exterminated along the way. Lucky men..

By the way, the term ‘honeymoon cystitis’ doesn’t define a special kind of cystitis. It just describes the fact that couples tend to have more sex when newly in love or during their honeymoon. As such, the risk of contracting a bladder infection from sex is increased.

Additionally, the risk of cystitis is higher if a woman has sex with a new partner for the first time. The germs of a new partner may destabilize the sensitive female genital flora, thus increasing the likelihood of infection. Alternatively, you may just suffer from a weak immune system, much like myself. Indeed, mine has been so weak over the past year that I’ve constantly suffered a bladder infection in addition to colds and bronchitis.

Bladder infection causes: how can you prevent one

Women that suffer from frequent bladder infection symptoms don’t have to accept their fate. There are ways to avoid cystitis. After sex, women should quickly use the toilet, to immediately flush out any possible germs that have already reached the urethra. Germ transfer is the most common of bladder infection causes. Drinking lots of water is also recommended so that taking a pee after sex is easier. If you’ve performed anal sex, don’t immediately move on to vaginal penetration without using a condom, as there is a higher risk of germs spreading. In general, condoms help to prevent infection. If you are in a relationship, however, you may no longer wish to use condoms. So here’s another tip: use a lubricant around the urethra opening. This makes it harder for bacteria to enter the urethra and then reach the bladder.

Bladder infection symptoms – and bladder infection treatment!

Be patient and drink tea – literally. Specially formulated cystitis tea is available, and sufferers are recommended to consume plenty of it in order to flush the pathogens out of their system. Warmth can help too: perhaps a hot water bottle or a bath. Try to rest and sleep as much as possible. Do not, under any circumstances, suppress the urge to urinate. These methods will help treat bladder infection symptoms.

Try the bladder infection treatment tips listed above, but it’s also important to give in to the fact that it will take time to recover. If the bladder infection isn’t cured after a week, visit a doctor. If you can, try to not have sex. Honestly though, that’s hardly an option.

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Frieda worked as a freelance journalist for over 10 years: She used to write about Easter recipes and style icons, about human metabolism and Michelin-rated restaurants. In short: about everything, except for sex. And for a good reason. Frieda always considered herself to be an average sexual person for all those years. Until a breakup persuaded her to stop taking the pill, which she had been on for 14 years. It was then, at the age of 28, that she finally discovered her wonderful sexuality and found her true, unique and hungry libido. Ever since, she has not only practiced a new sexuality. She writes and speaks about it too. And has never been as fulfilled as she is today!